I figured out the 3D problem. I had a newer version of 3D installed than I had onPC. onPC had it in red on the Network Config tab, but I just didn't realize that was highlighting a problem. Everything seemed to be talking to each other, but nothing showed up in 3D. I spent 30 minutes flipping where each was pointing and finally thought the version being red in the network config tab in MA2 might mean that is the problem, so I checked and it made sense that it was. Once I update the versions, immediately showed up. Been without this for months... ugh!!
In 3D, I can just grab the fixture and rotate it by hand easier, so I get around the other problem. Thanks everyone!